Staten Island, NY — October 11, 2025
In a horrifying and chilling incident, 19-year-old Damien Hurstel is accused of beheading his mother’s boyfriend — then showing his younger sister the gruesome scene and asking her, “Do you want her to live?”
What the Reports Allege
- The crime and confession: Authorities say Hurstel confessed to killing and decapitating Anthony Casalaspro, his mother’s partner.
- Chilling question to sibling: After allegedly showing the mutilated body to his sister Bri, he asked, “Do you want her to live?” She responded, “Yes — please.”
- Removal of brain matter: In accounts from the family, it’s claimed he used a spoon to remove portions of the victim’s brain.
- Mother’s discovery: The victim’s mother, Alicia Zayas, returned to a home drenched in blood. Her son reportedly told her he was “cleaning” when she asked about the body.
- Mental health history: The family and attorneys say Hurstel had longstanding psychiatric issues, including PTSD, major depression, and hallucinations, and that changes in medication may have triggered deterioration.
- Legal status: Hurstel is currently charged with second-degree murder, manslaughter, and criminal weapon possession. His court appearances have been delayed due to medical conditions (seizure, infection).
Why This Story Resonates
- Violence and mental illness: The case raises urgent questions about the intersection of untreated mental illness and extreme acts of violence.
- System failures: The family suggests he was cut off from oversight and support when he became legally an adult — they say they weren’t informed or involved in medication changes.
- Public reaction & caution: Authorities and legal representatives have called for restraint in public judgment while investigations continue.
